To All Survivors...

It has been consistently bad news about the harm done to women in the last few weeks. Dehumanising another human for your own pleasure. How evil can you be?

Growing up, back in secondary school you will see boys touching girls in very suggestive and inappropriate  ways and it was termed ''tapping current".

Rape: It is never always about sex, or your raging hormones or your libido. Rape is about showing power against another person which stems from a sense of entitlement to another person's body.

Which is why you hear people say things like your husband or boyfriend is enjoying  because the lady has big breasts or she has big bum. Do we have a say on our body structure? Do you have to sexualise a woman because of the way her body is?

Please what exactly in the body of a 10 year old or even a 5 year old girl fascinates a man? See,  I am tempted to believe that a rapist has mental illness. Quite frankly, what is the joy in inflicting pain on others?

 If you forcefully insert a penis into a woman's body and her body self lubricates,, can that ever erase the physical pain, the mental and emotional trauma, the permanent psychological damage amongst other things? A woman's body may in certain cases of imminent fear, stress, danger etc self lubricate naturally as a reaction to a potential harm or threat. No woman or man will enjoy forceful pain  directly inflicted by another exactly why this remains a crime.

Consent not granted does not only establish  legal consequences it clearly shows the offending party has a mental case  simply put, Wicked , Evil and Callous .

Some animals have claimed oh she even had an orgasm I did not rape her , ask her. Are you mad? The golden question to ask here is if ANY One can climax when a knife or gun or grievous bodily harm is been inflicted on you? The truth remains that these demented buffoons will use any term to justify their wanton criminality.  Does having an orgasm meant she wanted it? The body reacts because that s what the body is meant to do. It is no rocket science.

The same way people that are ticklish do not enjoy being tickled, however if you tickle them forcefully and they  react , does not in anyway excuse the fact that they abhor the act itself, they will still laugh because that is the way their bodies react to that sensation.

On the issue of rape, it appears no one can satisfy humans. People are telling victims to speak up. Same people look at victims and say "are you sure" ," he did that"? " He is too much of a gentleman", '' why didn't you speak up before he became rich" 'do you have evidence" etc.

If you are part of the above school of thought, I am here to tell you that you are stark raving mad .
Like do you mean a woman should be camera ready: Lights, action! Because she was expecting to be raped from a night out with her colleague or a perceived friend?

Oh, she should keep her panties or torn clothes from over 10 years as a constant reminder of what she would rather forget?

Love and Light to every survivor.

One day Justice will be served!!.