LOVE IN THE TIME OF CORONAVIRUS

I sincerely do not know how to put this: trying times, end times, rehearsal of what the world will look like after rapture?

Covid-19 got all of us, like we say in Nigeria kini yen gbe wa ni serious handicap!!!!

So, yeah i was going to talk about how to stay in LOVE in this phase that we are in . Because except you are not being sincere , being in each others faces every minute ko le end well. It is not about not loving your partner but because when then there is stress one of the easiest ways to take it out is on people close to us.

That is when boredom and stress will actually make you realize that your husband/wife does not cover their mouth when yawning. An act that never bothered you, simply because you do NOT spend long hours together will begin to irritate you. You will now be wondering why the person is opening mouth like a donkey that wants to swallow a big drum.

"Love dies when it wasn't really love to begin with. Despite the promises of forever, the love in any relationship fades away when each fall in a routine and start taking the other person for granted. With time, The emotion and feeling of love with which you say 'I love you' will slowly diminish for the same reason".

Children: see those beings ehn, i know we all believe that they are a blessing from God. But have you met a set of manipulative and intentional set of people? Have you? Teaching them in this time is not an easy task. I have gotten to the point of pulling my hair out, just so we can submit assignment on schooberry.com   This is not the time to leave teaching kids to just one partner. You will shout!!, you will rave and you will rant. After all you are not a super human being.

Your children will get on your nerves with their noise, you will feel like beating them and locking them outside. Don't worry, you are not mad, you are not a bad parent. Na corona cause am.

Some of you are not used to seeing your wives not fully made up. So,Shola has a little mark under her chin? Really? It is disgusting. Uncle get with the flow it is one of those things.

Same way some women do not know they are married to men who wear same boxers and singlets for 3 straight days. Because husband man go don commot house before day break, you are not privy to this side of him. Aunty don't be angry, accept him like that.

                  5 Tips On How To Be A Perfect Stay At Home Mate

1. Be a helpmate. Help your partner, with cooking, teaching the kids , cleaning the house etc. A stressed out partner is a grouchy partner.
2. Brush and shower. This can not be over emphasized. So, you are not going anywhere does not translate to not having a bath. be that sweet smelling soul your partner fell in love with, top smelling like iya Basit that just came back from fish market. 
3. Find time to enjoy some me time. Take a walk with your partner, play games together if you can't play FIFA , play Ludo or ayo olopon. Just do things together.
4. Talk to yourselves on how to manage resources at hand. See, all you men that say I eat only fresh pepper since we have all been in doors have you not been eating? Have you died? There will come a time that you may have to dip your hands into the savings(if the family has one ni yen anyway). If you get to that stage, DO NOT TIGHT THE WORLD TO YOUR CHEST. After-all, nobody know where all of this is going to end. Be prudent no doubt, but don't be stingy and kill your family with hunger. It is only the living that can spend money.
5. Above all, Pray o. I repeat PRAY.

This phase too shall pass.

Some day. 

Soon.

Till then....be love, show love, do love.