FOLA'S HAVEN

 So, I started exercising intentionally in the last few weeks,because I woke up one day and I could not move my body. Why do I feel so heavy? I could not even climb stairs without panting heavily.  I decided to take a stroll to the neighbourhood pharmacy and get my multivitamins. I still can't figure out why I decided to check my weight. Mistake: because that scale LIED. How is someone with my size and height  78.5kg.  I don't like how my body is at the moment. Slightly bulging tummy (that is if you consider a typical 4 months pregnancy bulge as slight).  Moving on....people will tell you that you should LOVE your body, but I have news IT IS NOT THAT EASY. I just want to have a picture perfect body. I want to be able to wear dresses and crop tops. I want to be able to fit into my size 12 skinny jeans and skirts. I miss tucking shirts into pants and skirts.  I don't want to be turning my face and looking for my perfect angle because my cheeks are puffy. I ju...

 ADULTERY: Adultery is sexual relations in which at least one participant is married to someone else and it is considered objectionable on social, religious,moral or legal grounds. We live in a world that I am going to refer to as an animal kingdom for the purpose of this post. And as we all know all animals are equal but some are more equal than others. Some of the reasons people commit adultery varies from unhappiness to dissatisfaction with the marriage either emotionally or sexually. Marriage is hard work and without equal contribution or mutual nurturing couples usually grow apart. Scenario A A married man cheating on his wife for years, he gets caught or otherwise found out. He blames the wife for being  nonchalant to his needs and emotions. Blames the traffic for keeping him out, so he has to stop by the other woman's house to pass time. Blames his crazy work hours with the same woman he has been cheating with.  Note that in all of this, he doesn't blame his philan...

I have had what ''real writers" call writers block for a long time now. I did not have a clue what to blog about. I had a billion and one thought going on in my head at the same time, couldn't piece them together so I just let the blog rest. So, anyway I resumed work today after a 5 day break and yet nothing to write about. Got a call from my younger son who wanted a replacement toy car so I had to stop by the store on my way home. It was on the queue that the stench that rebooted my  writer's block inspired me. The beautiful lady right behind me on the queue....the stench, so gross! For a minute, I held my breath because I was in a state of shock. This smell can not be coming from behind me!!! After it dawned on me that the smell was actually coming from this suspected source, I thought about that phrase " Your Attitude Stinks". This is a terrible thing to say to anyone if we are being sincere but some people do have terrible behaviour.  5 Signs That Sho...